Though, randomly passing these love or hate cards among our counterparts could successfully either spark or ignite an awaiting feeling, but the point is kay…are we ready to handle the aftermaths? Ironically, ninety-nine percent of the times…we don't gauge the frequency while blowing our trumpets!
We tu just say it…but the tragedy is kay we often think later…and those revelations or epiphanies could even take years…believe me…it’s true !
I know I’m not quite getting to the main point…but trust me, it’s equally important to word this bitter reality…only to ensure kay we all know where we stand right now, if so?
Love and hate are such strong and powerful emotions…kay just saying: “love u” or “hate u” is quite a courageous deed. Plus, both feelings come with their very specific rituals of do’s and don’ts…which to me, need to be abided to avoid having any later confusions or dilutions.
So, the question is kay, whenever we say these words…do we really mean them? Or are these mere slip-of-my-tongue phenomenons?
I don’t know the answer…could be either one, or even both! Confused…lakin, I’m sure of one thing…to love or to hate…is a serious full-time job…ones you are up for it…then there are no Ifs and Buts…all you gotta do is, do it the right way…period! Ones decided, then there is no looking back…these emotions become a part of you…and you owe them their due respect n regard.
It’s during my personal to-hate struggle, I realized kay how hard it is to actually devotedly hate someone! Believe me…it’s draining…both physically and emotionally. As a pre-requisite for to-love or to-hate…one needs to continually think about that person, place, or thing…24/7! Your brain needs to tag them as the top-priority files in its memory department.
It just didn't made sense to me…kay if I want to hate someone…I need to remember them all the time…all those bad moments…keep them fresh n crisp in my memory…categorize them as important people…only so to truly and wholehearted hate them!
That just wasn't comprehending for me…so I asked myself: “Is it worth all the hassle? Isn't my goal is to forget them…delete that bad part…tear-off that crocked page…?”
Hence, from there on I found kay…I cannot hate anyone*! As an average normal person…all I am capable of doing is to dislike! The people I don't like…don’t deserve my importance…and why should they?
By tagging them as ‘disliked files’ I intentionally pull them down to a mediocre status…I’m sure, which they would hate…task accomplished :) All I do is to ignore them in my memories…I know kay it in itself is a continuous struggle…yet, a bit better than that tiresome-hate-regime!
Thus, never hate…just dislike…keep it short and simple…easy breezy 'kiss'!
*P.S. For that lovey-dovy part…I just know one thing…kay…it's better to be respected and understood than be loved...! Hmmm :x
